So-called "christian" gals, who are misattired with loose long hair not tied up in a pug or into a back-of-head single ponytail, or nude-armed sleevesless, or nude-legged slacksless, or with soxless feet in sandals . . . whether in a church lobby or narthex after the service or at a youth gathering . . . impose a quietly-frustrating dilemma and impasse against (and not "for") Christian guys, in general.
Even only one immodesty-imposing gals in a group exposing herself to some guy or guys who she is not presently married to as to what the Song of Solomon in chapter 7 describes a bride does in private with her husband alone, the hapless and confused guy or guys (aroused by the female or females ignorantly or deliberately imposing premature, illicit, needless flaunting of should-be-covered female body parts) is forced to bypass sensible evaluation of her personality and character and instead has no recourse but to compare and rate her simply as a sex-object body in competition against other gals similarly mis-dressed.
Moreover, the implication of her in that immodest state is to - understandably - think of her in the following context:
Proverbs 7:10 And lo, a woman meets him, dressed as a harlot, wily of heart.
He wonders why she is seducing him by her partial bodily exhibitionism if she already has a boyfriend, is already married, is a lesbian and not interested in marriage, or wants to remain single.
Would he want his wife or girlfriend to similarly, irresponsibly, and dangerously tantalize other guys like she is doing by her ignorant or deliberate mis-dress when he is temporarily not around? WOULD he trust her to be faithful to him, and not put undue sadistic suggestiveness on other guys
The outward flaunting of parts of her nakedness reveals her woefully-immature carnality and essential corruption of her inward and internal mindlessless - no matter what creeds or so-called "christian" testimony she professes.
Matthew 7:16 (paraphrase) You will know them by their fruits. Are truly-born-anew grapes gathered from lascivious-display thorns, or actually-Christian figs from playgirl-immodest thistles?
Matthew 7:20 (paraphrase) Thus you will know them by their dress-code fruits.
Matthew 23:3 (paraphrase) so practice and observe whatever they religious female exhibitionists tell you, but not what they do; for they preach, but do not practice.
Luke 9:25 (paraphrase) For what does it profit a woman if she gains worldly reputation as a foxy and sexy glamor girl but loses or forfeits the the attraction and acquisition of a genuine Christian husband?
James 2:14 (paraphrase) What does it profit, my brethren, if a woman or girl says she has faith as a "christian" but has not modesty-attesting works? Can her faith save her?
James 2:16 (paraphrase) and one of them says to a erotically-sensitive guy, "Go in peace, turn your eyes away and don't be distracted or disturbed by my immodesty," without giving them the decency needed to begin a romantic relationship, what does it profit?
The besieged-by-immodesty guy is not sure if the pornographically-misdressed girl would follow through with physical contact in response to the obviously visual suggestiveness she is imposing on him without his asking for it. "Is she signaling me to give her prompt or immediate sexual-abuse-claimed connection of sorts by her misattire, or will she sadistically tease me without letting me do the logical response of touching her in various ways to various degrees, deferring to pious claims of postponement and recourse to non-fornicating chastity?"
The assumption is that the allegedly-"christian" gal will NOT submit to physical-contact erotic advances, so the guy quietly and non-admittedly plans to take out his biological-clock-duressed built-up non-solicited stimulation on some outside-the-church "gentile" who he has more faith and confidence will assuredly welcome him for non-objected-to physical sexual contact: namely, phone-book or newspaper or internet-advertised masseuses and escorts who he hopes will not be VD-disease-ridden prudes of some kind nor undercover vice cops.
Acts 13:46 (paraphrase) And Paul and Barnabas spoke out boldly, saying, "It was necessary that the word of God should be spoken first to you purportedly "christian" girls. Since you thrust it from you, and judge yourselves unworthy of eternal life by your demonic display of immodesty, hey, we turn to the advertised masseuse-and-escort gentiles.
Acts 14:27 And when they arrived, they gathered the church together and declared all that God had done with them, and how he had opened a door of faith to the gentiles.
Acts 18:6 (paraphrase) And when they frigidly opposed and reviled him, he shook out his garments and said to them, "Your sadistically-prudish blood be upon your heads! I am innocent. From now on I will go to the will-welcome-me-for-sex gentile masseuse and escorts."
Acts 22:21 (paraphrase) And he said to me, 'Leave the stupidly-immodest pseudo-"christian" showgirls; for I will send you far away to the sexual-connections-accomodating gentile masseuses and escort harlots.'"
Acts 28:28 (paraphrase) Let it be known to you then that this salvation of God has been sent to the masseuse-and-escort-harlot gentiles; they will listen."
Romans 11:11 (paraphrase) So I ask, have they stumbled so as to fall? By no means! But through their immodesty-enticing-but-frigidly-forbidding trespass salvation has come to the paid-for-sex masseuse and escort gentiles, so as to make "church" girls jealous.
Romans 15:16 (paraphrase) to be a minister of Christ Jesus to the masseuse and escort gentiles in the priestly service of the gospel of God, so that sexual-connection offering of the gentiles becoming one body with sexually-deprived Christian guys may be acceptable, sanctified by the Holy Spirit.
Ephesians 3:8 (paraphrase) To me, though I am the very least of all the saints, this grace was given, to preach to the advertised-masseuse-and-escort gentiles the unsearchable riches of Christ and those sexually-shunned-by-immodest-church-girls guys of Jesus
First Thessalonians 2:14 (paraphrase) For you, brethren, became imitators of the churches of God in Christ Jesus which are in Judea; for you suffered the same things from your own countrymen as they did from immodesty-perpetuating church girls
15 who visually assaulted both the Lord Jesus and the prophets, and drove us out, and displease God and oppose all men
16 who hindered us from visiting and paying substitutionary-relief masseuse-and-escort gentiles for sexual pleasure - so as always to fill up the measure of their sins. But God's datelessnessly-lonely spinsterhood wrath has come upon them at last!
It only takes ONE immodest girl in church to cause a LOT of consequential problems!
Ecclesiastes 9:18 (paraphrase) Wisdom is better than weapons of war, but one immodest sinneress destroys much good.
Ecclesiastes 10:1 (paraphrase) A little mopheaded, sleevesless, slacksless, or soxlessd dead flies make the perfumer's ointment give off an evil odor; so a little show-off-the-body-with-immodesty folly outweighs wisdom and honor.
Isaiah 57:8 Behind the door and the doorpost you have set up your symbol; for, deserting me, you have uncovered your bed, you have gone up to it, you have made it wide; and you have made a bargain for yourself with them, you have loved their bed, you have looked on nakedness.
Hosea 2:2 Plead with your mother, plead . . . for she is not my wife, and I am not her husband . . . that she put away her harlotry from her face, and her adultery from between her breasts
To expose loose long hair, naked arms, nude legs, soxless feet seems a way to "take matters into one's own hand" without trusting God to provide, but all it does is set up a barrier to beginning romantic relationship, which barrier of necessity occurs because it is ordered by Scripture:
Matthew 5:28 But I say to you that every one who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
But WHO is to blame and at fault for inciting and causing lustfull looks?
Romans 14:15 (paraphrase) If your brother is being injured by how you are misdressed, you are no longer walking in love. Do not let what you miswear cause the ruin of one for whom Christ died.
First Corinthians 3:1 (paraphrase) But I, brethren, could not politely meet or greet or associate with you as a spiritual woman, but as a noxious and sexually-harassing sex object of the flesh, as a totally-inadaquate babe in Christ, because you rudely and impolite flaunted naked body parts you should not publicly thrust into my face.
First Timothy 2:8 (paraphrase) I desire then that in every place the men should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarreling;
9 also that women should adorn themselves modestly and sensibly in decent apparel, not with broided hair or gold or pearls or costly attire nor sleeveslessness nor slackslessness nor soxlessness,
10 but by modestly-attired good works, as befits women who profess religion.
Numbers 5:18 And the priest shall set the woman before the LORD, and unbind the hair of the woman's head, and place in her hands the cereal offering of remembrance, which is the cereal offering of jealousy. And in his hand the priest shall have the water of bitterness that brings the curse.
Second Samuel 13:18 (only-somewhat paraphrased) Now Tamar was wearing a full-length robe with long sleeves; for thus were the virgin daughters of the king traditionally clad . . .
Song of Solomon 7:5 (paraphrase) Your head (not merely any head), my bride (not some non-married-to-me church-member woman or girl), crowns you like Carmel, and your flowing locks are like purple; a king is held captive in the tresses.
Isaiah 47:1 (paraphrase) Come down and sit in the dust, virgin daughter of America; sit on the ground without a throne, daughter of a urban or suburban church member! For you shall no more be called an innocent available church girl.
2 Get to work in the modest uniform of a common hamburger-flipping laborer, put off your veil, strip off your robe, uncover your legs, pass through the rivers and lakes at public beaches especially during warm weather.
3 Your nakedness shall be uncovered, and your shame shall be seen. I will take vengeance, and I will spare no man, OR woman.
4 Our Redeemer, the LORD of hosts is his name: the Holy One of Israel.
Jeremiah 2:25 (somewhat paraphrased) Keep your soxless feet from going unshod and your throat from thirst. But you said, 'It is hopeless, for I have loved strangers, and after them I will go.
First Corinthains 11:14 (paraphrase) Does not nature itself teach you that for a man to wear long hair is degrading to him,
15 but if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her for a covering.
16 If any one intends to be contentious, we recognize no such practice of allowing a woman to regard her long hair as a prayer covering or veil, nor do the churches of God.
Matthew 3:9 (paraphrased) and do not presume to say to yourselves, 'We are the-only-game-in-town church girls available for church guys'; for I tell you, God is able from phone-book-and-internet-advertised rift-raft to raise up compatible-enough sex mates for sensuously-desperate Christian guys.
Luke 3:8 (paraphrased) Bear consistently-modest-in-every-way fruits that befit sorry-about-being-misattired repentance, and do not begin to say to yourselves, 'We have Abraham as our father'; for I tell you, God is able from these stones to raise up children to Abraham.
"Forgive us our porn-and-masseuse-search-and-acquisition trespasses, as we forgive the asininely-immodest long-hair/arms/legs/feet-exposing immodest church girls who have trespassed against us, and do not forgive such sexually-harassing females their indecently-exposed trespasses unless and until they come back adequate attired. And lead us not into the temptation of being visually assaulted with further impositions of the lurid sights of their licentuous exhibitionism, but deliver us from bodily-defiling evil of any and all effects associated with them."