Yours truly quite honestly likes to around certain persons... but only certain persons. Among those, he at least feels at ease with. They treat him OK, and he then treats them OK. They get along together - if not as real close friends, at least congenially as author and reader, cooperative business associates, admired church members, political patriotic comrades, responsive and friendly clerks and customer in stores, laws-abiding patient and non-tailgating, non-honking obedient drivers cruising alongside him on community roads and highways.

In stark contrast, this webpage author does not like nor feel comfortable with other persons often or occasionally within his proximity. He is uneasy when they are around, and - in fact - wishes that they would leave (as soon as possible), not return nor come back, and not be around him anymore - ever again, if possible. They believe and say and do things which are against his moral and religious beliefs and practices, and he deems them irritating hinderances and annoyances, dampening his endeavors, depressing his spirit, and stifling his happiness. Although he does not viciously despise, nor maliciously hate, nor desire to attack and destroy them himself, he certainly does not want to peacefully coexist with those who do not want to coexist peacefully with him, nor feel inclusive with the diversity of those who do not feel inclusive about his diversity, nor want to be required to be integrated with those who want to be segregated away from him.

It grieves me when a man is forced to marry someone who will not stop until that someone murders him - whenever and wherever and however, and whom he neither conditionally nor unconditionally loves. Or when a woman is forced to marry some cruel and ruthless tyrant who relentlessly and mercilessly screams at, spits and urinates on, hits, kicks, slaps, punches, bashes and smashes her repeatedly into quasi-consciousness during engagement, whom she neither conditionally nor unconditionally loves.

Scripture describes forgiving mandatory tolerance:

Leviticus 19:17 "You shall not hate your brother in your heart, but you shall reason with your neighbor, lest you bear sin because of him."

Joshua 24:19 But Joshua said to the people, "You cannot serve the LORD; for He is a holy God; He is a jealous God; He will not forgive your transgressions or your sins."

Matthew 5:43 [paraphrase] You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' That holy-righteousness vengeance verse was OK so that you did not wimpishly and suicidally let your enemy destroy you, your dear wife, your precious kids, your sacred God-given religion, your entire Navy at Pearl Harbor -- but it also was wrong, being that that do-not-turn-the-other-cheek(s) Scripture verse does not belong in The Bible, because Leviticus 19:17 says so, which should be obvious,
5:44 But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, and especially pray for Satan and the demons and all who blaspheme the Holy Spirit and Name of the Lord and all those who perpetually and relentlessly hate Jesus and Christians and Christianity and do their damndest to obliterate it and you personally and police who would protect you,
5:45 so that you may be sons but not daughters of your Father and not Mother who is in Heaven; for He and not She makes His and not Her Sun, or sunlight regarding the Earth's axial rotation, rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the injust.
5:46 For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? At least you will be alive and not dead. Do not even the tax collectors do the same?
5:47 And if you salute only your brethren in some other way than the raised third finger, what more are you doing than others? Salute antisemitic Nazis and atheistic Communists and Jews-terrorizing Hezbollah and heads-chopping ISIS also. Do not even the Gentiles do the same?
5:48 You, therefore, must be "perfect" as previously defined, which includes the forced demands just mentioned in Matthew 5:43-47, as your heavenly Father is "perfect," and does the very same pertaining to Matthew 5:43-47. [end paraphrase].

Matthew 6:14 [paraphrase] For if you forgive men or women their trespasses, your heavenly Father also will forgive you;
Matthew 6:15 but if you do not forgive men [and Satan and the demons and impenitent sodomites and adulterers and assassinators and bank robbers and child molesters and rapists and those who blaspheme the Name of the Lord and particularly His Holy Spirit] their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. [end paraphrase]

First John 4:8 He who does not love does not know God; for God is love.

So let's see if God and His saints of the Bible "put their money where their mouth was" and did exactly that:

Leviticus 26:17 I [your unconditionally-loving God] will set my face against you, and you shall be smitten before your enemies; those who hate you shall rule over you, and you shall flee when none pursues you.

Deuteronomy 32:3 For I will proclaim the name of the LORD. Ascribe greatness to our God!
32:4 "The Rock: His work is perfect; for all His ways are justice. A God of faithfulness and without iniquity, just and right is He.
32:5 They have dealt corruptly against Him, they are no longer His children because of their blemish; they are a perverse and crooked generation.
32:6 Do you thus requite the LORD, you foolish and senseless people? Is not He your father, who created you, who made you and established you?
32:19 The LORD saw it, and spurned them, because of provocation from His sons and His daughters.
32:20 And He said, 'I will hide my face from them, I will see what their end will be, for they are a perverse generation, children in whom is no faithfulness.
32:21 They have stirred me to jealousy with what is no god; they have provoked me with their idols. So I will stir them to jealousy with those who are no people; I will provoke them with a foolish nation.
32:23 And I will heap evils upon them; I will spend my arrows upon them;
32:24 they shall be wasted with hunger, and devoured with burning heat and poisonous pestilence; and I will send the teeth of beasts against them, with venom of crawling things of the dust.
32:25 In the open the sword shall bereave, and in the chambers shall be terror, destroying both young man and virgin, the sucking child with the man of gray hairs.
32:26 I would have said, "I will scatter them afar, I will make the remembrance of them cease from among men,"
32:27 had I not feared provocation by the enemy, lest their adversaries should judge amiss, lest they should say, "Our hand is triumphant, the LORD has not wrought all this."'
32:28 For they are a nation void of counsel, and there is no understanding in them.
32:29 If they were wise, they would understand this, they would discern their latter end!
32:30 How should one chase a thousand, and two put ten thousand to flight, unless their Rock had sold them, and the LORD had given them up?
32:31 For their rock is not as our Rock, even our enemies themselves being judges.
32:35 Vengeance is mine, and recompense, for the time when their foot shall slip; for the day of their calamity is at hand, and their doom comes swiftly.
32:36 For the LORD will vindicate His people and have compassion on his servants, when He sees that their power is gone, and there is none remaining, bond or free.
32:40 For I lift up my hand to heaven, and swear, As I live forever,
32:41 if I whet my glittering sword, and my hand takes hold on judgment, I will take vengeance on my adversaries, and will requite those who hate me.
32:42 I will make my arrows drunk with blood, and my sword shall devour flesh -- with the blood of the slain and the captives, from the long-haired [i.e. mopheaded] heads of the enemy.'
32:43 Praise His people, you nations; for He avenges the blood of His servants, and takes vengeance on His adversaries, and makes expiation for the land of his people.
32:45 And when Moses had finished speaking all these words to all Israel,
32:46 he said to them, "Lay to heart all the words which I enjoin upon you this day, that you may command them to your children, that they may be careful to do all the words of this law.
32:47 For it is no trifle for you, but it is your life, and thereby you shall live long in the land which you are going over the Jordan to possess."
32:48 And the LORD said to Moses that very day,
32:49 "Ascend this mountain of the Abarim, Mount Nebo, which is in the land of Moab, opposite Jericho; and view the land of Canaan, which I give to the people of Israel for a possession;
32:50 and die on the mountain which you ascend, and be gathered to your people, as Aaron your brother died in Mount Hor and was gathered to his people;
32:51 because you broke faith with me in the midst of the people of Israel at the waters of Meribathkadesh, in the wilderness of Zin; because you did not revere me as holy in the midst of the people of Israel.
32:52 For you shall see the land before you; but you shall not go there, into the land which I give to the people of Israel."

Deuteronomy 33:11 "Bless, LORD, his substance, and accept the work of his hands; crush the loins of his adversaries, of those that hate him, that they rise not again."

First Samuel 15:33 And Samuel said, "As your sword has made women childless, so shall your mother be childless among women." And Samuel hewed Agag in pieces before the LORD in Gilgal.

First Samuel 17:46 This day the LORD will deliver you into my hand, and I will strike you down, and cut off your head; and I will give the dead bodies of the host of the Philistines this day to the birds of the air and to the wild beasts of the earth; that all the earth may know that there is a God in Israel.

First Kings 2:23 Then King Solomon swore by the LORD, saying, "God do so to me and more also if this word does not cost Adonijah his life!
First Kings 2:29 And when it was told King Solomon, "Joab has fled to the tent of the LORD, and hey, he is beside the altar," Solomon sent Benaiah the son of Jehoiada, saying, "Go, strike him down."
First Kings 2:31 The king replied to him, "Do as he has said, strike him down and bury him; and thus take away from me and from my father's house the guilt for the blood which Joab shed without cause.

Psalm 26:5 I hate the company of evildoers, and I will not sit with the wicked.
Psalm 89:23 I will crush his foes before him and strike down those who hate him.
Psalm 97:10 The LORD loves those who hate evil; he preserves the lives of His saints; He delivers them from the hand of the wicked.
Psalm 101:3 I will not set before my eyes anything that is base. I hate the work of those who fall away; it shall not cleave to me.
Psalm 119:113 I hate double-minded persons, but I love your law.
Psalm 119:128 Therefore I direct my steps by all your precepts; I hate every false way.
Psalm 119:163 I hate and abhor falsehood, but I love your law.
Psalm 120:6 Too long have I had my residence among those who hate peace.
Psalm 129:5 May all who hate Zion be put to shame and turned backward!
Psalm 139:21 Do I not hate those who hate you, LORD? And do I not loathe those who rise up against you?
Psalm 139:22 I hate them with perfect hatred; I consider them my enemies.

Proverbs 14:7 Leave the presence of a fool, for there you do not meet words of knowledge.

Proverbs 20:19 He who goes about gossiping reveals secrets; therefore do not associate with one who speaks foolishly.
Ephesians 5:7 Therefore do not associate with them.

Nahum 2:13 "Hey, I am against you," says the LORD of hosts [of unconditional forgiveness, reconciliation, and love], "and I will burn your chariots in smoke, and the sword shall devour your young lions; I will cut off your prey from the earth, and the voice of your messengers shall no more be heard."

Matthew 3:7 But when he saw many of the Pharisees and Sadducees coming for baptism, he said to them, "You brood of vipers! Who warned you to flee from the wrath to come?
Matthew 12:34 You brood of vipers! how can you speak good, when you are evil? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.

Matthew 13:41 The Son of Man will send His angels, and they will gather out of His kingdom all causes of sin and all evildoers,
13:42 and throw them into the furnace of fire; there humans of both genders will weep and gnash their teeth.
13:43 Then the righteous will shine like the sun in the kingdom of their Father. He who has ears, let him hear.
13:47 Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a net which was thrown into the sea and gathered fish of every kind;
13:48 when it was full, men drew it ashore and sat down and sorted the good into vessels but threw away the bad.
13:49 So it will be at The Close of The Age. The angels will come out and separate the evil from the righteous,
13:50 and throw them into The Furnace of Fire [i.e. invisible-flames/outer-darkness Lake of Fire]; there both men and women will weep and gnash their teeth.

Matthew 23:33 You serpents, you brood of vipers, how are you to escape being sentenced to Hell?
Matthew 26:24 The Son of Man goes as it is written of Him, but woe to that man by whom the Son of Man is betrayed! It would have been better for that man if he had not been born."

Mark 14:21 For the Son of Man goes as it is written of Him, but woe to that man by whom the Son of Man is betrayed! It would have been better for that man if he had not been born."

Luke 3:7 He said therefore to the crowds who came out to be baptized by him, "You brood of vipers! Who warned you to flee from the wrath to come?

Luke 9:5 "And wherever they do not receive you, when you leave that town shake off the dust from your feet as a testimony against them."

John 15:6 If a human does not stay in me, he is thrown out as a branch and withers; and the branches are gathered, thrown into the fire and burned.

Romans 16:17 I appeal to you, brethren, to take note of those who create dissensions and difficulties, in opposition to the doctrine which you have been taught; avoid them.

First Corinthians 16:22 If any one has no love for the Lord, let him be accursed. Our Lord, come!

Second Corinthians 6:17 "Therefore come out from them, and be separate from them," says the Lord, "and touch nothing unclean; then I will welcome you."

Second Thessalonians 3:14 If any one refuses to obey what we say in this letter, note that person, and have nothing to do with them, that he or she may be ashamed.

Titus 3:10 As for a person who is factious, after admonishing him (or her) once or twice, have nothing more to do with him/her,
Titus 3:11 knowing that such a person is perverted and sinful; he/she is self-condemned.

Second John 1:8 Look to yourselves, that you may not lose what you have worked for, but may win a full reward.
Second John 1:9 Any one who goes ahead and does not stay in the doctrine of Christ does not have God; he/she who stays in the doctrine has both the Father and the Son.
Second John 1:10 If any one comes to you and does not bring this doctrine, do not receive him or her into the house or give him/her any greeting;
Second John 1:11 for he/she who greets him (or her) shares his/her wicked work.

Revelation 14:9 And another angel, a third, followed them, saying with a loud voice, "If any one worships The Beast and his Image, and receives a [666-tattoo] Mark on his [or her] forehead or on his hand,
Revelation 14:10 he [or she] also shall drink the wine of God's wrath, poured unmixed into the cup of His anger, and he/she shall be tormented with fire and sulphur in the presence of the holy angels and in the presence of the Lamb [sheep and not goat].
Revelation 14:11 And the smoke of their torment goes up forever; and they have no rest, day or night [time periods], these worshipers of The Beast and his Image, and whoever receives The Mark of his name."

Revelation 20:10 ...and The Devil who had deceived them was thrown into The [outer-darkness, invisible-flames] Lake of Fire and Sulphur where The Beast and The false Prophet were, and they will be tormented day and night [time periods] to the ages of the ages.

Revelation 20:15 ...and if any one's name was not found written in The Book of Life, he/she was thrown into The [perpetual] Lake of Fire [not some temporary burning garbage pit of Gehenna outside the city of Jerusalem].
Revelation 21:27 But nothing unclean shall enter it, nor any one who practices abomination or falsehood, but only those who are written in the Lamb's Book of Life.
Revelation 22:15 Outside are the [homogay/homosodomite] dogs and sorcerers and fornicators and murderers and idolaters, and every one who loves and practices falsehood.

So clearly:

First John 4:8 He who does not love does not know God; for God is love.

The vengeful and eternally-punishing/tormenting God is . . . unconditional love?