It has been stated in Scripture, by Jesus Christ Himself (as conveyed by His Spirit-inspired human author) that:

Matthew 10:39 He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for my sake will find it.
Matthew 16:25 For whoever would save his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.
Mark 8:35 For whoever would save his life will lose it; and whoever loses his life for my sake and the gospel's will save it.
Luke 9:24 For whoever would save his life will lose it; and whoever loses his life for my sake, he will save it.
Luke 17:33 (paraphrased) Whoever seeks to gain his [ immodest-or-immoral-sex-lifestyle ] life will lose [ truly-fulfilling heterosexuality ], but whoever loses his [ immodest-or-immoral-sex-lifestyle ] life will [ acquire and retain truly-fulfilling heterosexuality ].

The above-mentioned verses are related to the sometimes-and-somewhat-paraphrased:

Proverbs 14:12 There is a [the-only-way-to-attract-a-man-is-to-misdress-immodestly] way which seems right to a woman, but its end is the way to death.
Proverbs 16:25 There is a [the-only-way-to-get-sexual-pleasure-is-with-porn-and-prostitutes] way which seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.

And:

Matthew 13:44 The kingdom of heaven is like a modestly-dressed non-exhibitionist spouse-to-be hidden in a field, which a man found and reserved; then in his joy he goes and sells all that he has and married that woman to have total-satisfaction sex with.
Luke 14:33 So therefore, whoever of you does not renounce all [the seasonal immodest mis-dress and porn and prostitute availabilities] that she/he has cannot be my disciple.

There are some individuals who, because of congenital bodily defects, cannot have the type of sex which results in producing offspring, and there are some who cannot have sex of the type which results in producing offspring because they have been castrated or in various ways accidentally or deliberately been injured by themselves or others, and there are some who are capable of having the type of sex which results in producing offspring but voluntarily have chosen (for whatever cause and not necessarily "reason") to never or rarely engage in reproductive sex.

Jesus put it this way:

Matthew 19:12 "For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. He who is able to receive this, let him receive it."

Those who have taken a rebelliously-deviant-and-defiant attitude against God and His plan for normal heterosexual desire and expression by turning to becoming and being effeminate and/or sodomite homosexual with homoqueer/homofaggot demented attitude and/or willful aberration, the following "eunuch-by-default" verses do not apply:

Isaiah 56:4 For thus says the LORD: "To the eunuchs who keep my sabbaths, who choose the things that please me and hold fast my covenant,
Isaiah 56:5 I will give in my house and within my walls a monument and a name better than sons and daughters; I will give them an everlasting name which shall not be cut off."

Luke 18:29 And he said to them, "Truly, I say to you, there is no man who has left house or wife or brothers or parents or children, for the sake of the kingdom of God,
Luke 18:30 who will not receive manifold more in this time, and in the age to come eternal life."

[ Notice that a realistic determination of "one's [limited] measure of faith" is obligatory regarding the possibility of resigning oneself to truly-chaste celibacy -- instead of overtly or covertly becoming one body with harlots relating to First Corinthians 6:15-20, and rather than becoming and being First-Timothy-4:3-mentioned presumptuous who forbid marriage and enjoin-abstinence-from-foods cultic who end up paederizing little altar boys, or being a mate-less pope or priest violating the being-a-husband-of-one-woman requirement qualifications for both bishop and deacon mentioned in First Timothy 3:2 and 3:12, concordant with:

Leviticus 21:10 "The priest who is chief among his brethren, upon whose head the anointing oil is poured, and who has been consecrated to wear the garments, shall not let the hair of his head hang loose, nor rend his clothes;
13 And he shall take a wife in her virginity.
14 A widow, or one divorced, or a woman who has been defiled, or a harlot, these he shall not marry; but he shall take to wife a virgin of his own people,
15 that he may not profane his children among his people; for I am the LORD who sanctify him" ]

Although there is a cause why a number of men would choose to become (in effect) anti-heterosexual homosexual eunuchs, there is clearly NO excuse for doing that.

Yours truly, as a sexually-harassed-and-abused man, fully understands the adverse feelings of hostility against women who:

(1) flaunt their pompous feminist-sexist authority and
(2) impose the incessant daily onslaught of feminist indecent immodesty in general public view . . .

. . . all of which ferments a growing resentment demanding sooner-or-later retaliation against such human females [ who caused the problem, and not others who are attacked as easier-to-access replacements ] and even their buddy-buddy associates consorting alongside them:

Proverbs 13:20 He who walks with wise men becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.

Consequentially, we men are on a continuous quest to - on one hand - turn away from, avoid, and disdain random and non-asked-for female-human bared body parts thrust into our hapless field of view . . . while - on the other hand and simultaneously - insatiably desire to see and feel and (though intimately) fuck (baer with me) at least one and possibly more women we deem our own wives or concubines who (in various ways of sufficient previously-passed tests of acceptability to us) we yet trust, admire, and do whatever it takes to get into a closer and closer interdependent romantic relationship only when permanently married to them and fully intending to remain so.

Thus, we paradoxically hate the sights of random warm-weather-displayed female-human loose-long-haired mopheadedness, naked-armed sleeveslessness, nude-legged slackslessness (even shortened slacks or shortened skirts of whatever length), and soxless bare feet under noisy flip-flop sandals . . . while, at the same time, are almost obsessed with an urgent biological-clock-driven necessity (not simply optional "preference") to not only gaze upon, then intricately inspect and explore, and ultimately, eagerly, tenderly, and passionately fondle the female body parts previously mentioned belonging to us in marriage of our very own private "birthday-suited" women in secluded mutual-couple isolation who are much-deserving submissive recipients of our intense and total erotic physical contact.

Such is an ideal situation, but because of extenuating circumstances in our rampantly-immodest "adulterous-generation" American society nowadays, indirect and substitutionary sex of various sorts is frequently (and lamentably) reluctant and regretfully resorted to.

To wit, expensive masseuses and escorts are advertised on the internet and in city tabloids, but meager income to pay for such haphazard sources of non-predictable and illegal semi-gratification makes even infrequent deployment financially prohibitive - not to mention the possibility of blackmail destroying reputation amongst family and church members plus the possibility of acquiring some serious venereal diseases of sundry varieties.

So-called "adult" "dating" "services" (in effect, immorally consorting with neighborhood or near-neighborhood defiled and defiling harlot types) are also treacherous for causes stated in the previous paragraph, and expenses (of court-consignment charges of "rape" or "abuse," for example) always loom as a potential peril. Pregnancy occurring as consequence of genital intercourse would require shotgun-sudden marriage to a possibly-disbelieving bitch who, accustomed to legs-spread-for-everyone hitchhiker-wanderer faithlessness, might turn out to be virulently antagonistic against orthodox religious beliefs of the impregnator, and for a conscientious and sympathetically responsible father-to-be, allowing or committing abortion homicide against God's created womb-babe property is out of the question.

Seeing a questionably-"christian" girl or young woman wearing a "virginity ring" immediately disqualifies her as a potential Christian wife or concubine in the minds of typical Christian guys without even having to ask her at all about it, and expecting an immodest-showoff/pseudo-innocent twit (displaying her sleevesless or slacksless or soxless quasi-nudity indiscriminately) to follow up and logically acquiesce to friendly sexual advance and not rudely retort with accusatory or prudish-frigid sadism is like asking an innocent question to some churlish stuck-up snob only to impolitely get a sarcastic remark or (worse yet) no response whatsoever (sort of like talking to a wall or rock but expecting an answer) . . . which only infuriates a normal person.

The only lurid (but seemingly much safer) option available is pathetic indirect affiliation and virtual intercourse with a plethora of prostitute lookalikes on the Web, image galleries of whom (in their pristine and exquisite teen-and-slight-older completely-naked pulchritude) can be conjured up by typing in a few applicable keywords into the URL or Google Search Box.

The seeming advantage of lusting with, masturbatingly self-sodomizing at, and ejaculating to and with a make-believe harem of mere .jpg and .mpeg and .wmv monitor-screen porno imagery (whether or not previously and secretly saved to hard drives or flashdrives or CDs) is almost too obvious to elaborate upon:

- no pregnancy possible,
- no VD possible,
- no feminist-sexist frigidity nor sadistic prudishness from the captivating photonic female bodies,
- no menstrual periods or headache excuses,
- always readily available to please at the click of a mouse button,
- no blackmail from the images perused,
- no backtalk nor arrogant/insubordinate disobedience or running-away-to-someone-else desertion,
- easy to hide, and
- easy to delete.

But, of course, no actual bodies are there to express mutual appreciation nor return bodily affection in person.
No children produced. No offspring or lineage or geneology produced. Semen is wasted; a fruitless and shamefully disgusting mess to clean up. Masturbational penile abuse prepares for frustrating and disappointing erectile dysfunction in later life concerning (and not "regarding") worn-out parts.
Complete and lasting satisfaction cut short and never acquired -- a dismal doom of inevitable extinction against the family name, plus
Most insidious, some unfilfilled potential spouse or spouses somewhere out there is horribly deprived of actual-heterosexual-bodies sensuality they also crave, need, and require.

Added to that is the curse from Divine threats of exclusion away from ultimate heaven and instead into ultimate hell: insured entrance into final-destination fiery-torment in outer-darkness within perpetual solitary confinement are automatically put into place against both the women who pose for porn and the men who are indirect partners in virtual cyber-whoredom fornication and adultery.

Sublimation for the visually oppressed -- besieged with relentless barrage of out-in-plain-view publicly-bared female body parts (even sensuous non-back-of-head-ponytailed loose-long-haired mopheadedness) not covered with sleeves nor slacks nor socks (particularly during seasonably warm weather) -- into diversionary workaholic concentrations, are only partially successful, because - once again, over and over - that "Be-fruitful-and-multiply" biological-clock drive will not take "No" for an eternal-abstinence answer, and tyrannized fellows are soon and invariably in too close proximity with fool feminist exhibitionists roaming around with quasi-"legal" impunity.

When wise old Solomon (owner of 700 wives and 300 concubines) stated:

Song 2:15 "Catch us the foxes, the little foxes, that spoil the vineyards, for our vineyards are in blossom."

. . . he did not intend to have us accumulate a bevy of little falsely-innocent cutesy-cutesy tweenies or teenies to lust with at our convenience, but instead meant to coop those marriages-and-spouses-destroyers up, pen them in, quarantine them, arrest and cite and jail and imprison them, snare them with a trip-line noose or trap them as with a crippling wild-animal steel trap, in accord with:

Proverbs 5:8 (somewhat paraphrased) Keep your way far from her, and do not go near the door of her house;
9 lest you give your honor to others and your years to the merciless;
10 lest strangers take their fill of your strength, and your labors go to the house of an alien;
11 and at the end of your life you groan, when your flesh and body are consumed,
12 and you say, "How I hated discipline, and my heart despised reproof!
13 I did not listen to the voice of my teachers or incline my ear to my instructors.
14 I was at the point of utter ruin in the assembled congregation."
15 Drink water from your own cistern, flowing water from your own well.
16 Should your springs be scattered abroad, streams of slime in the gutters?
17 Let them be for yourself alone, and not for strangers with you.
18 Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth,
19 a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight, be infatuated always with her love.
20 Why should you be infatuated, my son, with a loose woman and embrace the bosom of an adventuress?
21 For a man's ways are before the eyes of the LORD, and he watches all his paths.
22 The iniquities of the wicked ensnare him, and he is caught in the labors of his sin.
23 He dies for lack of discipline, and because of his great folly he is lost.

Cephas, the Rock, might follow up with phrases aptly describing the despicable immodestly-misattired female-human "foxes" and the diabolical damage they do:

Second Peter 2:2 And many will follow their [immodest warm-weather-excused] [porno-misdressed] licentiousness, and because of them the way of truth will be reviled.
3 And . . . they will exploit you with false words; from of old their condemnation has not been idle, and their destruction has not been asleep.
7 . . . and if [God] rescued righteous Lot, greatly distressed by the [ porno-immodest ] licentiousness of wicked [ female exhibitionists ]
8 (for by what that righteous man saw and heard as he lived among them, he was vexed in his righteous soul day after day with their lawless deeds),
9 then the Lord knows how to rescue the godly from trial, and to keep the [ immodestly ] unrighteous under punishment until the day of judgment,
10 and especially those who indulge in the lust of defiling passion . . .
12 . . . these, like irrational animals, creatures of instinct, born to be caught and killed, reviling in matters of which they are ignorant, will be destroyed in the same destruction with them,
13 suffering wrong for their wrongdoing. They count it pleasure to revel in the daytime. They are blots and blemishes, reveling in their dissipation, carousing with you.
14 They have eyes full of adultery, insatiable for sin. They entice unsteady souls. . . Accursed children!
15 Rejecting the right way they have gone astray;
18 . . . they entice with licentious passions of the flesh men who have barely escaped from those who live in error.
19 They promise them freedom, but they themselves are slaves of corruption; for whatever overcomes a human, to that [ she ] is enslaved.
20 For if, after they have escaped the defilements of the world through the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, they are again entangled in them and overpowered, the last state has become worse for them than the first.

The guilty over-tanned . . . previously deceived with propagandized pre-warm-weather demonic-styles-and-fashions brainwashing, are (by summer's end) both bored with and sick of the overdose of been-there/done-that exposed body parts mindlessly flaunted in spite of shade trees and air conditioning . . . and are non-admittedly ready for and relieved by cooler-temperature autumn where they can once again return to rational sanity without the satanic media and other coercion of having to continuously and shamefully display their immodesties (and be expected to shamefully continue to display their immodesties) within the frigidity of frostbite-injurious winter temps.

Mark 5:15 And they came to Jesus, and saw the demoniac sitting there, clothed and in his right mind, the man who had had the legion; and they were afraid.
Luke 8:35 Then people went out to see what had happened, and they came to Jesus, and found the man from whom the demons had gone, sitting at the feet of Jesus, clothed and in his right mind; and they were afraid.

Yet, even then on occasion, there is always that one deplorably-immodest show-off-her-body wacko girl or woman to prematurely and sinfully arouse a sexually-sensitive guy:

Proverbs 13:20 He who walks with wise [decently-attired women] becomes wise, but the companion of [seasonably-immodest] [female] fools will suffer harm.

Ecclesiastes 9:18 Wisdom is better than weapons of war, but one [immodestly-misdressed] sinner destroys much good.

The evil-exhibitionist hearts of most previously-walking-porn pervertesses have not changed by the coming of winter freeze. If they cannot bare their arms with sleeveslessness, and/or their legs with shorts, and/or parts of their soxless bare feet with open-toe sandals during and after ice storms, they walk and run around flaunting non-single-ponytailed or non-chignoned loose long hair instead of simply wearing warm headgear (such as a stocking cap) or hood. And they wait like dormant viruses or ancient buried-in-the-ground genocide-intended aliens, ready to sprout into action come late spring and early summer, described by the following:

Luke 11:23 He who is not with me is against me, and he who does not gather with me scatters.
24 When the unclean spirit has gone out of a woman, he passes through waterless places seeking rest; and finding none he says, 'I will return to my house from which I came.'
25 And when he comes he finds it swept and put in order.
26 Then he goes and brings seven other spirits more evil than himself, and they enter and reside there; and the last state of that woman becomes worse than the first" [ Next spring and summer, she wears even shorter shorts than she did last year, and also then decides to display her naked legs walking or jogging or biking along a heavily-trafficked highway instead of the lonely backroads ]
27 As he said this, a maryolatrous catholic woman in the crowd raised her voice and said to Him, "Blessed is the womb that bore you, and the breasts that you sucked!"
28 But he said, "Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and keep it!"

Some selfish, mindlessly-depraved, and judgmentally-accusatory female heretics, apostates, and cultic infidels thoughtlessly and cruelly demand that "if men cannot take it" and "it bothers them," those so-called "mind-in-the-gutter perverts" should unsafely and dangerously looking away (and get hit by a car or collide into a tree) or down (to not see street signs) or up (to trip and stumble) or inflict themselves with blindness, and perhaps (like nitpicking hypocritical pharisees rudely not willing to lift a finger to help but instead defiantly raise their 3rd finger in response) might even mis-apply Scripture for self-righteous self-justification :

Matthew 5:28 But I say to you that every one who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

And, like the Devil himself mouthing Holy Writ out of context for the wrong purposes, continue on with:

Matthew 5:39 But I say to you, Do not resist one who is [immodestly] evil. But if any exhibitionist female assaults your rights eye, turn to her the other also;
Luke 6:29 To her who visually strikes you with non-solicited immodesty in the eye, offer the other also . . .

And, bellering on with additional bigoted-and-biased blather, blasphemously blatter:

Luke 14:27 Whoever does not bear his own cross of tolerating sexually-lascivious immodesty without objecting or vengefully saying something about it, and come after me, cannot be my no-porn-tolerated but not-living-under-law-but-under-grace-immodesty-forgiven disciple.
Galatians 6:5 For each man will have to bear his own load of take-it-on-the-chin-and-keep-a-stiff-upper-lip exposed-female-body-parts-sights-shoved-down-his-throat without recourse to porn-and/or-prostitutes.

. . . even to the point, if necessary, of:

Matthew 18:9 And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and throw it away; it is better for you to enter life with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into the hell of fire.
Mark 9:47 And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out; it is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into hell.

[ How about if your mopheadedness causes you to immodestly sin, cut it off per First Corinthians 11:5-6? If your sleeveslessness causes you to immodestly sin, wear a long-sleeved blouse? If your slackslessness causes you to immodestly sin, put on some full-length jeans? If your soxlessness causes you to sin, put on boots or tennies with socks? ]

As much as possible, thankfully near-sighted-without-glasses or frosted-dark-glasses-utilizing duressed men do somewhat-successfully find and use such only-partially-effective ways (such as simply closing eyes to "rest") to distort or avoid the sordid and lewd sights of capricious female-body-parts-exposed enticers:

Isaiah 42:19 Who is blind but my servant, or deaf as my messenger whom I send? Who is blind as my dedicated one, or blind as the servant of the LORD?

Even so-called "christian" "ladies" (be they toddlers or tweens or teens or young-adult or older) cannot be termed "ladies" or regarded as comrade believers in Christ to freely fellowship with because of their obnoxious and intolerable part-time or partial immodesties:

First Corinthians 3:1 But I, sisters, could not address you as spiritual females, but as floozies of the flesh, as [too-immodestly-disgusting-to-look-in-the-eye] woefully-immature-and-childish babes in Christ ( IF "in Christ" at all ].

. . .while the despicably-conceited reject any thought that they themselves are to blame and to be held accountable for disregarding and ignoring responsible public modesty of body parts already described above:

Proverbs 30:20 This is the way of an adulteress: she eats, and wipes her mouth, and says, "I have done no wrong."

Jeremiah 2:23 How can you say, 'I am not defiled, I have not gone after the girls-fashion-magazine-and-TV-ad idols? Look at your way in the valley; know what you have done: a restive young camel interlacing her tracks,
Jeremiah 2:24 a wild ass used to the wilderness, in her heat sniffing the wind! Who can restrain her lust? None who seek her need weary themselves; in her month they will find her.
Jeremiah 2:25 Keep your feet from going unshod and your throat from thirst. But you said, 'It is hopeless, for I have loved strangers, and after them I will go.'

Jeremiah 3:3 Therefore the showers have been withheld, and the spring rain has not come; yet you have a harlot's brow, you refuse to be ashamed.

Romans 14:15 If your brother is being injured by what you [wear], you are no longer walking in love. Do not let what you [mis-wear] cause the ruin of one for whom Christ died.

The New-Testament admonitions:

First Timothy 2:8 I desire then that in every place the men should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarreling;
9 also that women should adorn themselves modestly and sensibly in decent apparel, not with plaited hair or gold or pearls or costly attire
10 but by good works, as befits women who profess religion.
11 Let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness.
12 I allow no woman to teach or to have authority over men; she is to keep silent.
13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve;
14 and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor.
15 Yet woman will be saved through bearing children, if she continues in faith and love and holiness, with seriousness.

The above-mentioned words: "modestly and decently," with reference to an implied Christian dress code, is obviously related to and qualified by the parameters alluded to and inferred in:

(1) RSV's and NASV's Numbers 5:18 and Song 7:5 (non-mopheaded tied-up hairstyle)
(2) RSV's and NASV's Second Samuel 13:18 (LONG-sleeved FULL-length non-slitted opaque robes or dresses or gowns)
(3) KJV's and NASV's Proverbs 5:19 (non-low-cut breasts cover)
(4) KJV's and RSV's Isaiah 3:17 (crotch cover, relating to the self-sewn aprons of Adam and Eve)
(5) KJV's, RSV's, NASV's Isaiah 20:4 (loose-fitting non-drooping buttocks cover)
(6) KJV's and RSV's Isaiah 47:1-4 (full-length legs cover)
(7) KJV's and RSV's Jeremiah 2:25 (feet cover)

IS such display of good-works modesty necessary for salvation?
ARE Christians simply saved by "accepting Jesus as their personal Savior and Lord?"
ARE we not "saved" by "grace" instead of "works of the law?"

Consider the following, in summary:

Matthew 22:8 Then he said to his servants, 'The marriage is ready, but those invited were not worthy.
9 Go therefore to the thoroughfares, and invite to the marriage feast as many as you find.'
10 And those servants went out into the streets and gathered all whom they found, both bad and good; so the wedding hall was filled with guests.
11 But when the king came in to look at the guests, he saw there a woman who had no marriage garment;
12 and he said to her, 'Friend, how did you get in here without a marriage garment?' And she was speechless.
13 Then the king said to the attendants, 'Bind her hand and foot, and throw her into the outer darkness; there humans will weep and gnash their teeth.'
14 For many are called, but few are chosen."

Luke 6:46 "Why do you call me 'Lord, Lord,' and not consistently do the amish/puritan/islamic-hijab-like general-public modesty tell you?"

Titus 1:16 They profess to know God, but they deny him by their [ mopheaded/sleevesless/slacksless/soxless-immodest ] deeds; they are detestable, disobedient, unfit for any good work.

James 2:24 You see that a human [ Gr. anthr(o)pos ] is justified by [ amish/puritan/islamic-hijab-like general-public modesty ] works and not by faith alone.
James 2:25 And in the same way was not also Rahab the harlot justified by works when she received the messengers and sent them out another way?

[ Note that the verse does NOT state that Rahab was a woman instead of a man or a man instead of a woman, nor does it states that she was justified by or in spite of her harlotry however dressed or misdressed whenever and wherever, nor justified by or in spite of her lying to city-official inquirers as to the real location of the Hebrew spies, but because of her reverent fear and respect and obedience to the God of Israel, and who knows the extent Rahab became decently dressed and chaste in her behavior when becoming ingrained into the godly examples of devout Hebrews during their anti-heathen/pagan Canaanite-destroying campaign? ].

Revelation 16:15 Look, I am coming like a thief! Blessed is he [applies also to "she!"] who is awake, keeping his [and "her"] garments that he [and "she"] may not go naked and be seen exposed."

Revelation 3:17 For you say, I am rich, I have prospered, and I need nothing; not knowing that you are wretched, pitiable, poor, blind, and naked.
Revelation 3:18 Therefore I counsel you to buy from me gold refined by fire, that you may be rich, and white garments to clothe you and to keep the shame of your nakedness from being seen, and salve to anoint your eyes, that you may see.
Revelation 3:19 Those whom I love, I reprove and chasten; so be zealous and repent.

Revelation 20:12 And I saw the dead, great and small, standing before the throne, and books were opened. Also another book was opened, which is the book of life. And the dead were judged by what was written in the books, by what they had done.
Revelation 20:13 And the sea gave up the dead in it, Death and Hades gave up the dead in them, and all were judged by what they had done.